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NBN to scrap controversial usage charges, but telcos urge caution

“There also continues to be a lack of accountability within the NBN for the significant time, effort and expense wasted across industry over the past 14 months to address the failings of the previous SAU proposal. The fact NBN did not share its new proposal with industry prior to distributing to the media first, highlights its views on so-called collaboration.”

The federal government last month confirmed NBN Co would remain in public hands “for the forseeable future”, a move which forced it back to the drawing board on a regulatory mechanism known as the Special Access Undertaking, which determines the quality of its services and how it charges wholesale customers such as Telstra, Optus and TPG Telecom.

Under a previous proposal, NBN Co planned to lock in price rises until 2040, and double the price of entry-tier plans over the next decade. Australia’s telcos have long argued the pricing structure of the NBN hurts margins and makes it difficult to predict monthly costs. The new proposal suggests removing the connectivity virtual circuit (CVC) charge, which increases with peak internet usage periods, by mid-2026.

But despite the initial drop in pricing, consumers and businesses will have to brace for yearly price increases linked to inflation, which NBN Co claims are needed to hit financial targets.

The proposal also includes larger discounts to wholesale prices for high-speed tiers by mid next year. The reductions are between 8 per cent and 14 per cent across the various speeds when compared with the initial proposal NBN Co put forward in March.

NBN Co also released a set of benchmark services standards on end-use connections, service transfers and performance incidents, and proposed giving new powers to the competition regulator to reset the NBN’s revenue and pricing framework from 2032.

Optus’ vice president of regulatory and public affairs, Andrew Sheridan, said the paper gave the telco reassurance NBN Co was heading in the right direction. If NBN and industry continue to work constructively, Optus is confident we can provide Australian customers with the outcomes they deserve,” Sheridan said.

A Telstra spokesman said there were positive steps but some areas needed attention, including service quality.

“Our ambition through the process will continue to be ensuring the wholesale terms deliver better outcomes for our customers, sustainable industry economics and increased use of an important national asset,” the spokesperson said.

The discussion paper is subject to regulatory and industry consultation later this month.

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Game dev creates custom Pokemon game to share his lunch order

If you’ve ever worked in an office or collaborative environment, chances are you’ve been involved in some pretty silly things to keep the day-to-day interesting for you and your co-workers. But you probably haven’t built a custom Game Boy Advance-era Pokemon game, recreating your office and the people in it, just so you can tell someone your takeaway lunch order for the day.

That’s exactly what Kirk Winner did for his peers at 5 Lives Studios in Brisbane, Queensland. As shared by 5 Lives graphics programmer Chris Webb on Twitter, Kirk’s actions appear to be the latest in a long-standing Friday lunchtime tradition of what he calls ‘everyone orders Thai (food) in a really weird way’.

Webb shared a series of screenshots in to Twitter threadwhich is just delightful.

If you ask us, this custom Pokemon romhack effort was 100% worth it for the single gag it was built for.

5 Lives Studios is the Queensland studio most recently known for creating the oceanic survival game Windbound. Previous to that, they were responsible for Satellite King, a spiritual successor to the beloved PC sci-fi real-time tactics series, Syndicate. The studio was formed by a number of industry veterans in the wake of the 2008 global financial crisis, which shuttered several major game developers in Australia.

The studio is currently working on an unannounced project.

in current Pokemon game news, The Pokemon Company recently revealed several new details about the upcoming games in the mainline series, Pokémon Scarlet and Violet. It’ll be an open-world adventure set in a region inspired by Spain, the Legendary Pokemon can be ridden like motorcycles for some reason, and a new mechanic sees the adorable little monsters turn into crystal, in a move I can only assume is part of a Swarovski partnership.

Pokemon Scarlet and Violet will launch on 18 November 2022.

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Selma Blair opens up about why she ‘stopped looking in the mirror’

selma blair has revealed she “stopped looking in the mirror” after starting her treatment for multiple sclerosis.

The 50-year-old actress has opened up about her approach to beauty, self and style in a new interview with InStyleadmitting that when her grueling treatment started for MS, she didn’t have much care for anything.

“After I had treatment, I’d honestly… stopped looking in the mirror,” she said. “My hair was short, I was bloated, I had alopecia on my lashes and my face.”

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Blair says she stopped looking in the mirror when her MS treatments started. (instagram)

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She adds: “It was all so much effort – I sometimes don’t see well – so I just stopped, and I didn’t think I missed it.”

When Blair was diagnosed with the condition in 2018, she experienced every symptom; vision loss is one of the first and most tell-tale signs.

MS sufferers can also experience muscle and joint pain, fatigue and impaired coordination, and these symptoms affect people at varying degrees across their life.

Though she had no interest in fashion or make-up while in the throes of her chemotherapy, the Cruel Intentions actress quickly realized that she was missing it a little bit.

Blair has always had a love for dressing up, regularly fronting red carpets with eye-catching numbers and chic silhouettes.

Actress Selma Blair attends the "2004 CFDA Fashion Awards" at the New York Public Library June 7, 2004 in New York City.
Selma Blair attends the 2004 CFDA Fashion Awards at the New York Public Library. (Getty)
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Blair at the 2019 Vanity Fair Oscar Party in Beverly Hills. (Getty)

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In her interview with InStyleBlair even outs herself as a “fashion girl”, adding: “I’ve never thought of fashion, makeup, really any of our ways of self-care and presenting ourselves, as frivolous.”

She likened the moment she decided to pick up a make-up brush in the midst of her MS to “waking up again”.

“It was a real turning point for me,” she says. “It was like, ‘OK, let’s start waking up again.'”

Blair’s emotional journey of diagnosis and treatment has been captured in the documentary Introducing Selma Blairdirected by Rachel Fleit.

The documentary follows Blair as she undergoes hematopoietic stem cell transplantation (HSCT) and as the world shifts due to the COVID-19 pandemic.

The star is now in remission, but keeps things candid on her Instagram account, continuing to raise awareness of MS, and provide a safe space for others in the community.

Recently, she has been sharing plenty of photos with her new service dog, Scout.

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“This condition – or any condition of chronic illness or disability – is my story, and if that helps normalize, to open the door for other people to be comfortable telling their stories, that can also be enlightening and informative and helps to build new ways of love and support,” she says in the documentary.

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Banksia Hill boys self harming after transfer to unit at adult Casuarina Prison

Children transferred to an isolated unit at a maximum-security adult prison in Perth have made multiple suicide and self-harm attempts within weeks of the move.

A group of 17 boys, aged as young as 14 and mostly Indigenous, were shifted last month from Banksia Hill detention center to a new unit at nearby Casuarina prison.

Between their arrival on July 20 and August 8, there were three attempted suicides and 13 minor self-harm attempts at the facility known as Unit 18.

The figures were provided by Western Australia’s government in parliament on Thursday in response to a question from Greens upper house MP Brad Pettitt.

Beds in the youth detention facility at Casuarina Prison (file image)
Camera IconThere have been three attempted suicides and 13 self-harm attempts at the facility in recent months. Credit: AAP

Government MP Matthew Swinbourn, representing the corrective services minister in the Legislative Council, confirmed four children had been involved in a self-harm attempt last week which resulted in one boy being hospitalized.

The boy returned from hospital the same day with no further medical intervention required and was provided with mental health support, he said.

Officials have said they were left with no choice but to transfer the boys to Unit 18 because they had been destroying property, escaping from their cells, assaulting staff and harming themselves.

They have promised the detainees will be kept away from adult prisoners in safe and secure units while repair works are completed at Banksia Hill.

The number of self-harm and attempted suicide incidents at Banksia Hill has spiked over the past three years.

Megan Krakouer, from the National Suicide Prevention and Trauma Recovery Project, said there was an “ongoing crisis” in youth detention.

“The self-harms will continue this year, next year and the year after unless we radically reform the system,” she said on Friday.

The Department of Justice have released images of some of the facilities inside Casuarina Prison, being used by teenagers who have been moved there from Banksia Hill
Camera IconSome of the facilities inside Casuarina Prison, being used by teenagers who have been moved there from Banksia Hill. Credit: Supplied/Supplied

Corrective Services Minister Bill Johnston this week said the remaining details at Banksia Hill were now in a “much better” environment.

“It was not functioning to have these young offenders causing violence at Banksia Hill, so that the other kids … were not getting the services they need because the facility was constantly going into lockdown,” he told reporters.

He said the boys at Unit 18 had access to education, cultural, medical and psychological services and secure recreation facilities.

They were being regularly assessed and would be returned to Banksia Hill once it was deemed safe for them to do so, he said.

An independent inspector this year found some boys at Banksia Hill were spending as little as one hour a day outside their cells, in violation of their human rights.

About 600 past and present details have signed up for a planned class action against the state government.

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Final Fantasy XIV Update 6.2 Gets Release Date & Epic New Trailer

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Square Enix released the trailer and release date of the upcoming update for Final Fantasy XIV numbered 6.2 and titled “Buried Memory.”

Square Enix released the trailer and release date of the upcoming update for Final Fantasy XIV numbered 6.2 and titled “Buried Memory.”

The much-awaited update will be released on August 23.

The trailer showcases the story and features included in the update, and as usual, it could be considered a bit spoiler-y.

We start with a look at the “Island Sanctuary” feature that will be the centerpiece of the update, the new raid, and the continuation of the main story quest. You may also recognize some of the music if you’re a veteran fan of the Final Fantasy series.

We also see some known faces that will return as AI companions for the renewed Heavensward dungeons. It certainly appears that this update will be a strong one for Square Enix’s super-popular MMORPG.

If that does not bother you, you can enjoy it below both in English and Japanese depending on your voiceover language of choice.

Final Fantasy XIV is currently available for PlayStation 4, PS5, and PC. The Endwalker expansion has been released a few months ago and you can read our recent review.

You can also read more about the changes planned for the longer term, including a refresh of the graphics, and more information about the upcoming update 6.2 “Buried Memory,” which will introduce the “Island Sanctuary” feature and much more.

Incidentally, the traditional seasonal event Moonfire Faire is currently going on in the game to celebrate the summer.

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Melbourne TikToker reveals her dad set her up with boyfriend

A television publicist who swore off dating apps has revealed the unusual way she met her current boyfriend.

Alice James took to TikTok in June while she was getting ready for a blind date when she revealed her father had set her up.

“Three weeks ago I made the decision to get off all the dating apps – I just wasn’t having fun, I was feeling like crap and it was taking it’s toll,” she said.

“Fast forward, last week I was with my dad at the local pub, having a drink and talking sh*t and Dad was like ‘I don’t know if you notice but there is a real hottie sitting at the bar,’” she said.

Ms James, from Melbourne, revealed she had noticed the man as soon as she and her dad had walked into the pub.

“Dad said, ‘Leave it with me’ and he just started chatting about footy with the guy,” she said.

“Then Dad asked, ‘Are you was single’, and the dude was like yeah I am, and Dad was like “My daughter is single, she’s right over there.’”

She said the trio began to chat but when the man went to leave, Ms James’ father insisted the younger duo swap numbers.

She said following exchanging numbers the duo continued to speak and set a plan to meet.

A month later, Ms James broke the news to her dad the pair were officially a couple, calling the man she met at the pub her “boyfriend”.

Followers of Ms James’ account were over the moon, congratulating her on the status of her relationship.

“So good! I bet your dad will love to brag about this,” one person commented.

Another said: “I need your dad as my wingman!”

One person said their own father needed to step up his game and help her out.

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The top-10 draft bolter with a bit of De Goey about him

Bailey Humphrey is emerging as a top-10 draft bolter, according to AFL Media’s draft guru Cal Twomey.

The Gippsland Power captain has dealt with a knee injury in 2022, which forced him to miss the Under-18 National Championships, but when he has been in action he has been superb.

Twomey says Humphrey plays as a forward who spends time in the midfield and possesses dynamic traits, similar to Collingwood’s Jordan De Goey.

Humphrey, 17, is now in the mix for an unlikely top-10 spot in this year’s draft.

“Put this name down in your book – Bailey Humphrey,” Twomey said on SEN Breakfast.

“I have started the year in red-hot form. I saw his Round 1 game for Gippsland Power and he starred.

“He continued to play good footy at NAB League level, then he got injured with a knee issue. He missed the under-18 carnival for Vic Country, but he’s back in a big way the past couple of weeks.

“I have kicked four goals and five behinds from 31 disposals a couple of weeks ago. Last week I kicked 1.4 from 16 touches and missed a bit of the second half with a head knock.

“He was everywhere in the first quarter. All the talk amongst the recruiters during that game was about Bailey Humphrey and how good this guy could be.

“A 185-centimeter forward/midfielder, genuine power, explosiveness, excitement. A lot of clubs were there on Sunday watching him and seeing what he could do given he’s missed some carnival time.

“There’s a bit of Jordan De Goey to the way he plays, so think about that type of player.”

Humphrey is likely to play for Vic Country against Vic Metro in the decider of the National Championships in AFL Grand Final week.





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80,000 Australians have $2 million in super, costing the federal budget billions

Among the cohort of wealthy savers with more than $2 million are 384 people aged under 30, who boast an average balance of $5.3 million. About 80 per cent of the young savers in this group either did not lodge a tax return or earned less than $18,200 in 2019-20.

Think tank the Grattan Institute estimates total earnings tax concessions for individuals with balances of $2 million or more were worth about $2.8 billion in 2019-20. The figure would have increased due to the strong growth in global equity markets following the early pandemic downturn.

The revelations have fueled calls among economists and influential super lobby groups for the Albanese government to reform superannuation tax concessions.

Independent economist Chris Richardson said the amount of concessions accruing to high-income earners was an “embarrassment” and called for a simpler system where superannuation earnings were taxed at a discount of 15 cents to a person’s marginal tax rate.

“So rather than starting with a flat tax and adding vast amounts of sticky tape and string, you start with a personal tax system and give a deduction for saving,” he told AFR Weekend.

Previous research by Mr Richardson found such a system would net the federal budget $6 billion per year, which would be enough to lower the company tax rate to 26 per cent from 30 per cent.

He said it would allow the tax office to do away with the complex system of contribution caps that govern how much money people can put into their super.

“Caps are God’s way of telling you the underlying system is wrong in the first place. You’re putting caps on because the incentives are wrong.”

Going beyond what’s needed

Super Consumers Australia director Xavier O’Halloran said there should be a threshold at which people no longer received a “leg up” from tax concessions.

“Superannuation, and the way it’s set up, is to incentivize consumers to save who wouldn’t otherwise to ensure they’ve got a good retirement.

“When we look at people who have managed to accumulate well beyond what might be needed to maintain the standard of living throughout retirement, we think it’s worth looking at whether the tax incentives are actually going beyond what’s needed to encourage [savings],” Mr O’Halloran said.

Richard Holden of the UNSW Business School said changes to superannuation rules should be considered, but only as part of a review of all aspects of the system.

“It would be much more sensitive to say that from now on all money that goes into super, and while it is in super, it is tax free. So all the compulsory contributions and voluntary contributions up to some amount are tax free, but we’ll tax it at the normal capital gains tax rate on the way out.

“Right now we have this weird thing where you tax it at 15 per cent on the way in, and you don’t tax it on the way out up to a cap, and it creates these awkward concerns about how much is enough?”

Professor Holden said reform of retirement subsidies could help address Australia’s structural budget deficit.

He said there were not that many $20 billion potential fixes but “retirement savings is one of them”.

Although Labor, before the election, said reform of tax concessions was not a priority, changes would help the cash-strapped federal budget and growing debt levels.

Wealthy savers are the main beneficiaries of federal government tax concessions.

Just 6 per cent of people have more than $500,000 in superannuation, but they accounted for 48 per cent of the total value of personal superannuation contributions in 2019-20.

Personal superannuation contributions are taxed at the concessional rate of 15 per cent, up to an annual employer and individual contribution limit of $27,500. People who earn more than $250,000 pay an extra 15 per cent tax, but the additional impost still represents a hefty discount on the top marginal tax rate of 45 cents.

The average worker with more than $1 million in retirement savings made a personal contribution of $19,613 to their superannuation in 2019-20, compared to the $502 average top-up made by a person with a balance of between $50,000 and $99,999.

In the 2020-21 financial year, there were $19 billion and $1.3 billion in respective business and individual superannuation contribution tax concessions, according to the Treasury’s annual Tax Benchmarks and Variations Statement.

Combined, Treasury estimates that it is expected to amount to almost $93 billion over the next four years. Concessional taxation arrangements on super earnings cost the budget a further $10.6 billion in 2020-21 and are expected to cost almost $90 billion over the next four years. Individuals are generally taxed 15 per cent on their super earnings rather than their marginal tax rate.

Super cap calls

The Association of Superannuation Funds of Australia and the Australian Institute of Superannuation Trustees previously have called for balances to be capped at $5 million.

Grattan’s Joey Moloney and Brendan Coates said there was no justification for tax concessions for anyone with more than $2 million in super.

“At that level, people have more than enough for retirement and it looks more like tax-planning than anything else,” they said.

“This is particularly stark for those under 30 who already have $2 million in super, which has clearly come from contributions made by their parents.

“There is a strong case for capping total balances at around this level as such large balances are inconsistent with the primary goal of the super system of providing income in retirement.”

”These tax concessions are unsustainable with a structural budget deficit of 2 per cent of GDP. Treasury projects that by 2035, the total cost of super tax concessions will outweigh that of the age pension. Super tax concessions should be first against the wall to tackle the post-COVID budget challenge.“

UNSW taxation expert Bob Deutsch said current day and legacy tax concessions gave considerable scope for wealthy account holders to build their balances.

“Using the caps, you can over time put quite a lot of money into super. We’re not exactly paring it back at the moment.

“The downsizer super contribution rules have actually been increased so you can get more money in. I’m not surprised that there is a lot of money going into super.”

Professor Deutsch said concessions were an appropriate way to encourage proper saving for retirement, but changes could be required.

“The problem is that superannuation funds have become used now for broadly more wealth creation purposes. I don’t think that was ever really the intention.”

“It was not meant to be money pot that could just grow to provide people with wealth. It was more meant to be about giving them sufficient funds to enable them to have a reasonable retirement, without having to lean on the public purse.”

He said changes to the rules could be politically tricky for Labor, but reforms by the former Coalition government did have an impact.

“You’d want to be very careful about how you limit access to super, because you don’t want to ruin it for people who are using it generally build a retirement lump sum,” he said.

Greens spokesman Nick McKim said anyone with $2 million in their super “doesn’t need tax concessions beyond the [$1.7 million] balance cap”.

“We stand ready to work with the new government to make super fairer,” he said.

“We should get rid of tax breaks for the super wealthy which are basically publicly subsidized estate planning. This is low-hanging fruit.”

“The recent retirement income review found that the richest 10 per cent get more public subsidies than anyone else. This is a corruption of what superannuation was designed to be, and it needs to end.”

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Your Macs Aren’t as Secure as You Think

When the Macintosh computer was new, Apple touted the fact that Macs, unlike PCs, didn’t get viruses. We know better now; Macs do get hit with malware, even ransomware. But the fact remains that macOS is intrinsically more secure than Windows. That’s why security researcher Thijs Alkemade’s claim to break through all macOS security layers with one attack is such a gut punch. An excited audience of Black Hat conference attendees, both in-person and virtual, clamored to hear details about this surprising claim.


What Makes MacOS So Secure?

“I’ve been a Mac user all my life,” said Alkemade. “It’s a system I know well. The early Mac platform was based on Unix. In that platform, users are security boundaries but processes are not. For files, every file has an owner, and nine flags define permissions. The root user has full access to modify all files, memory, even the kernel. That was the old model.

“System Integrity Protection (SIP) was introduced in 2015 with El Capitan,” he continued. “It put a security layer between the root users and the kernel, protecting the system from modification even by the root user. Root access is no longer enough to compromise the system. One of the other names for this system is rootless. Some people think it means Apple is going to take root away, like on the iPhone. But actually it just means that root es less powerful. Dangerous operations require entitlements, and each macOS release adds more and more restrictions.

“But…macOS is old, large, and established,” said Alkemede. “A lot of system parts were written before the security model changed. It’s not possible to reconstruct the entire system.”

I have listed off several techniques that could be used to enable process injection, but concluded they’re just incidental. “It’s much nicer to have process injection that you can apply everywhere.”


Where’s the Security Hole?

Where’s the weakness? Alkemade didn’t keep listeners in suspense. “It’s in the saved state feature,” I explained. “When you shut down, you check a box if you want an app to reopen when you start again. It even restores unsaved documents. It largely works automatically. Developers don’t have to do anything to use it, but they can extend it.”

The process of saving an app’s state is called serializing, and the serialized data is meant to be encrypted. However, encryption is not required, which allows a clever programmer to abuse this feature. “I create a saved state using a malicious serialized object and write it to the directory of another application’s state. It automatically deserializes and executes within the other app, and can use the entitlements and permissions of that other app, achieving process injection.”

Alkemade walked the audience through the numerous barricades he encountered, and the techniques he evolved to circumvent them. He did admit, “I have to skip a few steps for time reasons and disclosure reasons.” I won’t attempt to explain the details here, as you need to be a programmer to totally grasp them. The key point is, it worked.


What Can You Do With Process Injection

Alkemade detailed three possible uses for the exploit: escape the sandbox, escalate privilege, and bypass System Integrity Protection.

These are extraordinary claims, given those outcomes are practically the Holy Grail of hacking. Bypassing SIP in particular gives your program supreme power. “We can read email or Safari history of all users, or grant ourselves permission to use the microphone or webcam,” Alkemade explained. “Our process is now protected by SIP, which gives it powerful persistence. We can load a kernel extension without the user’s knowledge or permission.”

Alkemade proceeded to demonstrate these three hacks for the appreciative audience. Only the best Black Hat demos get their own round of applause!


Should We Worry?

This security hole is already fixed in macOS Monterey, but app developers need to do their part. “Developers can and should make apps accept only secure serialized objects,” said Alkemade. “Apple has already done that with all their apps, but existing third-party apps need to do the same.”

As it turns out, this new protection isn’t just for Monterey. “I just learned that they back-ported it to Big Sur and Catalina,” said Alkemade. “The Catalina release notes are updated, but not those for Big Sur. I got a spontaneous email from Apple asking to share the contents of my talk in advance. Two hours ago I got confirmation that it’s fixed in Big Sur, though I haven’t had time to verify it.”

“Apple keeps adding layers to macOS,” concluded Alkemade. “Adding new layers to an established system is hard, so code written 10 or more years ago is today’s attack surface. More layers may not increase the effort for attackers, not if you can use the same bug to bypass all of them.”

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Introvert or extrovert: Everyone on TikTok thinks they’re an introvert, but the truth is ‘layered’

There’s been a weird trend on my social media pages of late – and it’s time to talk about it. Everyone is claiming to be an introvert, and all those people clearly think they’re better than others because of it.

It’s become so much so that it’s really starting to feel like people claiming to be introverts are the new hipster … except that no one seems to know what an introvert actually is.

For example, on of the most popular TikTok videos under #introvert on TikTok says the four things you should never do to an introvert are invite other people to something without telling them, video chat out of nowhere, take them to a gathering then just ditch them and finally to volunteer them to speak in front of a group.

Am I a secret introvert, or are these all just common social expectations and courtesies you should follow for any type of person?

It’s just a bit rude to invite someone else to an intimate gathering without a heads up. Calling or video chatting out of nowhere if you’re under the age of 35 is straight up serial killer behaviour.

I love being social and meeting new people, but if my friend took me to a party where I didn’t know anyone and then proceeded to ignore me for the rest of the night, I could only assume they weren’t a very good friend .

And finally, I can talk to absolutely anyone at a party, but put me on stage in front of those people and my brain freezes – so is anyone actually forcing people to speak in front of groups against their will?

Maybe the problem is that people are confusing bad friends for their own introversion.

But I’m getting ahead of myself – let’s narrow down what being an introvert or extrovert actually means.

What is an introvert?

“Introverts and extroverts basically refer to personality types that operate on each side of the spectrum when it comes to personality traits and their approach to socializing,” explained psychologist Nancy Sokarno from online counseling service Lysn.

“Introverts by nature are typically quiet and reserved, and often prefer spending time alone. Extroverts on the other hand operate on the opposite end of the spectrum and are considered outgoing, loud, and enjoy attention from others, along with socializing with others.”

Pretty simple really, yet my socials tell me there are a lot of myths around introverts and extroverts that we need to just nip it in the bud.

Why are we seeing a rise of self-proclaimed introverts?

According to Ms Sokarno, it’s yet another change brought on by the global pandemic.

“The past three years with the pandemic meant that many of us were forced to spend our lives that way,” she explained.

“The pandemic meant we couldn’t really socialize. We even had to cover up a bit of our faces with masks which meant many of us weren’t connecting with people in a way we are used to, or even were avoiding interactions altogether.

“That in itself meant some people got used to spending their time in the same way an introvert might (even if they previously didn’t consider themselves someone who would do that).

“Some people also found that they preferred spending time alone and may now have decided that they are in fact an introvert.”

Neither is superior

You may be wondering why this introvert trend has rubbed me up the wrong way, and the answer is: because of the strong “pick me” vibes these videos come along with.

In exactly the same way self-proclaimed empaths did before them, and hipsters did even before that, self-proclaimed introverts on TikTok talk about introversion like an exclusive club of unique and deep-thinking people. Their videos come with a clear message that they believe they’re “not like other people”.

The way you like to socialize has very little to do with your level of creativity, your ability to think, or even necessarily if you like to unwind alone after a social gathering – so everybody just calms down.

“Everyone’s psychology is incredibly layered, so it really depends on the specific person,” says Ms Sokarno.

Social anxiety doesn’t necessarily equate to introversion

Despite what my TikTok feed wold have me believe, you can have social anxiety no matter what end of the personality spectrum you lie on – especially after two years of on-again-off-again lockdown.

“It’s actually a lot more nuanced than we think,” said Ms Sokarno.

“For example, you might have someone who is considered an introvert, yet they love public speaking. Someone who has social anxiety wouldn’t be as comfortable getting up on stage talking to people. There are many factors that can be at play, it isn’t as black and white.”

For that matter, needing time to unwind on your own after being social isn’t a trait reserved for introverts either.

“Generally it’s said that introverts often need time alone after being social,” continued Ms Sokarno. “It might be in the introvert’s nature to find solace by themselves, but this doesn’t mean they’re more prone to needing to be alone after every social event.”

Even introverts crave social connections

Being an introvert doesn’t mean shutting yourself off from the world entirely, says Ms Sokarno.

“As humans, we do crave social connections and it is important for everyone’s wellbeing – including introverts,” she said.

“It’s important to make sure we are giving ourselves what we need, while not forgetting about our fundamental requirements of being a human. We need others, so from time to time, we have to socialize.

“Ultimately, it’s all about finding the right balance and what works best for your personality type.”

Most people are a bit of both

Nothing ever made more sense to me than when I first heard of the term “ambivert”.

The fact is, while introvert and extrovert may be opposite ends of the personality spectrum, most of us exist somewhere in the middle, with a mix of both that inform our preferences and tendencies.

Which probably explains why I love to go out and be around people, but after a busy week of socializing I spend the next week talking to as few people as possible.

It also explains why most people would call me outgoing, but some people have only known me as a shy and quiet person.

Basically, the only thing that really pays off, in terms of being an emotional healthy human, is “honoring your true feelings”, according to Ms Sokarno.

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