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Former Nudgee College student met paedophile Dennis Douglas on grounds of the exclusive Brisbane school

A paedophile old boy was able to spend time with a highly vulnerable foster child on the grounds of Brisbane’s St Joseph’s Nudgee College in 1992, contradicting claims the man was banned from the school at the time.

The ABC recently revealed Nudgee College old boy Dennis Norman Douglas, who was later convicted of multiple child abuse offenses, had an association with the college’s former headmaster Brother Stephen David McLaughlin in the 1990s.

Lawyers for McLaughlin, who was principal of the school from 1988 to 1993, said when their client became aware of Douglas’ visits to the school in about 1991, a directive was issued to ban him from the campus.

Dennis Douglas
Dennis Douglas pleaded guilty to indecently dealing with a child in 1994.

But copies of diaries kept by Douglas and obtained by police, reveal the old boy boasted of visiting the school on a specific day more than a year later in December 1992 and spending hours interacting with boarders including a vulnerable foster child.

The ABC has located the foster child who confirmed contact with Douglas through the school.

In the diary entry, Douglas, who was then in his 20s, writes that at 2:36pm on December 3, 1992, he drove to Nudgee College.

Handwritten diary entry
A diary entry from Dennis Douglas revealed he was on Nudgee College grounds in 1992.

“Br McLaughlin was quit (sic) busy to see me and I also tried to see Mr D Gough (then a teacher at the school) and no luck,” he wrote.

“I then went to the toilet and then I went to the car and at the same time I made a phone call at the car… a boy named [name redacted] came up to talk to me.

“It was weird. Anyway we walked around to the old chapel, we went to have a look inside. He enjoyed our talk etc.”

Douglas then wrote that he continued to walk around the school and spoke to “kids” and boarders from Papua New Guinea.

He said he and the boy went back to his car where he allowed the youth to make a phone call on the car phone.

“I then left [name redacted] at 5:37pm and drove home.”

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Trauma-informed photography course gives abuse survivors a new perspective, boosting self-esteem

Child sexual abuse survivors say a photography course is teaching them to see beauty in the world and help them gain a sense of confidence — all with their smartphones.

After photographer Mitch Dunn taught the six-week course in Ballarat last year, the participants kept in touch, sharing their photos in a private social media group called the Light Seekers.

“The real foundations of photography which support healing are light and perspective, and that can be accessed through any camera,” Dunn said.

“Light is a really beautiful metaphor for healing. When we think about light in terms of photography, when we look at the brightest light source, it creates the darkest shadows.

“When you find yourself in a dark place, when you understand photography, if you turn 180 degrees, you’ll find bright light — it’s also a metaphor for hope.”

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Marita finds joy in taking photos on the Great Ocean Road.(Supplied: Marita)

Dunn also focused on composition.

“It’s about narrowing your frame, so when things are overwhelming or you’re seeing a lot of negativity, if you can compose what you’re seeing in a certain way, there is always beautiful hope and inspiration somewhere around.”

New friendships without expectations

Abuse survivor Marita described the course as a “powerful experience”.

“It was my first step back into being a bit social. I had 15 months off work related to a court case and a breakdown,” she said.

Learning about composition, grid lines, lighting and portrait photography changed her approach to how she takes photos or uses her phone camera.

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Martia says she finds photographing nature a great way to feel connected.(Supplied: Marita)

“Mitch was really good at getting us to see things from different perspectives; some of mine turned out quite abstract,” Marita said.

She found new friendships with the other survivors where there were “no expectations”.

“It was nice to be in a space that felt safe and supportive of being who you are, not having to justify your behaviour. It felt quite trauma-informed.”

The 43-year-old’s favorite photo is waves crashing over rocks at Johanna Beach on Victoria’s Great Ocean Road.

“It makes me feel peaceful; it sounds weird but it’s a wild and windy place, but whenever I go there I feel really calm because I can feel the sand, the spray of the ocean and the salty air.

“I feel like I’m away from everything and it’s a really calm experience.”

Passion for photography returned

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Drew found his iPhone ideal to use as his hands shake due to Parkinson’s disease.(Supplied: Drew)

When Drew was seven years old, he had his camera taken off him by the Anglican Church where he was sexually abused in South Australia.

“They told me they were ‘saving it for the best’ but I never got it back,” he said.

Now 57, the Narungga man said a lot of his photos were in black and white at graveyards.

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Drew took black-and-white photos to represent the camera taken off him as a child.(Supplied: Drew)

“The black and white represented the type of camera I had taken away and because one of the places I was taken for walks by the reverend was in cemeteries.

“It’s interesting how some habits are still there subconsciously or otherwise, but they can’t hurt me anymore.”

Drew lives with Parkinson’s disease but finds his phone’s in-built stabilization helps him to deal with his hands shaking.

“The course provided so much joy for people who had been left in the dark and we’ve been friends ever since,” he said.

A mindfulness tool

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Mel says she now uses photography as a mindfulness tool.(Supplied: Mel)

Mel is a carer for her husband — both are survivors of child sexual abuse. She said the biggest thing she learned was the mindful aspect of photography.

“If I feel a little bit stressed or overwhelmed, I just take myself for a walk and take my camera,” she said.

“Taking photos of things I see at that moment can be a tool in moving forward.”

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Mel has found joy in taking photos while out walking.(Supplied: Mel)

For Mel, the course was the first time she had done something for herself to address her trauma apart from a few counseling sessions.

“It’s a very personal thing. I wasn’t ready to open that can of worms for a long time,” she said.

“But now I love being able to stop myself and be present in that moment when taking photos.”

New views everywhere

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Annie finds joy in photographing clouds which she sees a metaphor for her life.(Supplied: Annie)

Annie was sexually abused as a child, which has caused her to experience low self-esteem and a lack of confidence in trying anything new.

However, the Light Seekers book created with the participants’ photos at the end of the course has her beaming with pride.

“It was such a boost to my self-esteem, something we’d achieved out of such adversity,” Annie said.

“It was me getting some recognition for the sorrow I’d gone through in my life.”

Annie found her favorite topic was taking photos of clouds.

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Annie says she now sees aspects to photograph in unexpected places.(Supplied: Annie)

“The clouds were symbolic of my life — the different shapes, some days they’re beautiful and others are just smudges across the sky,” Annie said.

The 63-year-old now sees the world in a new way.

“On bad days now I’ll sit and look at the clouds. My eyes have become like my camera and I’m more cued into looking at things differently.

“Even cracks on the sidewalk, I stop and look at them and take photos of them too.”

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Mother says 13yo under care of child protection ‘sexually abused by paedophiles and addicted to ice’

A Queensland mother has described the “soul-destroying” ordeal of her teenage daughter being sexually abused by paedophiles and becoming addicted to ice while she was under the care of the Department of Child Safety, saying every day was “just waiting for her to die “.

Warning: This story contains details some readers may find distressing.

Three years ago, Helena* was in fear of her life and felt she had no choice but to contact the department.

Her 13-year-old daughter Xanthe* was becoming increasingly violent, hitting her, smashing holes in walls, and ripping doors off their hinges.

“She threw something at me and it split my leg open,” Helena said.

“I realized one of us was going to die.

“I was scared she was going to kill me. Not on purpose, she’s not vindictive or anything like that, it was more that she was so out of control that I was scared she was going to kill me by accident and that she was going to have to live with that.

“That was my biggest fear.”

Helena desperately sought counseling and mental health support for her daughter, but with a limited number of professionals in the regional part of Queensland where she lives, it was around five months before she could get an appointment.

Her daughter was later diagnosed with conduct disorder with traits of borderline personality disorder.

But by this time, Helena had already made the heartbreaking decision to relinquish care.

But worse was to come.

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Helena relinquished care after facing increasing violence from her daughter.(ABC News: Paul Yeomans)

Men ‘injected her with meth’

Helena said Xanthe has made a number of disclosures to her and her carers about what has transpired during her time in out-of-home care.

She said she learned that a youth worker dropped her daughter at a 16-year-old boy’s house for a “sleepover” four days after she went into care.

She said her daughter was allowed to do whatever she wanted, including being driven by youth workers to buy marijuana every Friday, “then they would come back to resi (residential care) and smoke that until it was gone.”

Helena said her daughter was later moved to another care placement against her wishes and preyed upon for sex by some older men in the area with a criminal history.

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Helena said Xanthe would constantly go missing and that “she was with the paedophiles.”(ABC News: Paul Yeomans)

“They injected her with meth (methamphetamines) in the neck and she has been addicted to it since,” she said.

“There were people taking videos of her… while she was flipping out.”

Helena made numerous complaints to the department and asked for her daughter to be moved.

“When her drug addiction started, the department refused to accept that it was happening,” she said.

“They believed [she] was making it up.”

She said her daughter would constantly go missing — “she was with the paedophiles.”

But she said the police could not charge anyone unless her daughter was prepared to make a statement.

“Xanthe constantly stated she didn’t feel safe to press charges until she was moved away from the area.”

Mother constantly feared the worst

Helena said at the age of 14, her daughter was used for sex by a man in his 40s who also had a criminal history.

“That’s when she started getting really sick,” she said.

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Craigmore boy whose death is being investigated suffered stomach pains, cardiac arrest before dying, his family says

The father of a young Adelaide boy whose death is being investigated by police has spoken of the “saddest day” he laid his son to rest.

WARNING: This story contains content that some readers may find upsetting.

Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander readers are advised this article contains the name of a person who has died.

Kaurna-Narungga boy Makai, aged seven, died on February 10 but police yesterday revealed they have been investigating his death — the second suspected neglect case brought before the taskforce in less than a month.

ABC has spoken to Makai’s family and has obtained permission to use his name.

In a social media post, Makai’s father wrote the boy has been laid to rest in the new Kaurna Repatriation area at Smithfield Memorial Park in March.

“My son, Makai, will be the first Kaurna person to be laid to rest in a new location, designated for the Kaurna People,” he wrote.

“What an historic moment this will be and yet it will be the saddest day for me.”

In an earlier post, I thanked close family and friends who supported him and his child through “difficult and challenging time”.

“No father should watch his son die. Wouldn’t wish this on anyone. Not even my worst enemy,” the father wrote.

“The system I put my faith and trust in, failed me and my son,” he wrote in a separate post.

“I miss him so much, I wish he was here with me. I LOVE HIM,” he wrote on a different day.

Makai’s heart stopped three times

Makai’s relatives have claimed on a fundraising page that the Craigmore boy had suffered stomach pains in his final days.

The primary school student visited a doctor and had x-rays after complaining of stomach pains on February 7.

His doctor reviewed the x-ray results the next day and prescribed Makai laxatives.

Police Commissioner Mal Hyde
Former police commissioner Mal Hyde will lead a government review into the agencies’ interactions with Charlie and Makai’s families.(abcnews)

However, Makai took a turn for the worse the following day, where he could not move and started to hallucinate, his relatives wrote on the fundraising page.

On February 10, Makai — with a swollen belly — was rushed to the Lyell McEwin Hospital by his father.

His heart stopped beating and he went into cardiac arrest twice, and doctors were able to revive him.

Makai underwent emergency surgery and was placed into an induced coma to be transferred to the Women’s and Children’s Hospital.

During the ambulance trip, Makai’s father was told the boy might not survive the journey to the hospital.

After arriving, Makai’s heart stopped for a third time and doctors were not able to resuscitate him.

The coroner’s report released the following week showed the seven-year-old had died from pneumonia in both lungs, sepsis and the MRSA superbug, a drug-resistant form of golden staph.

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Police are investigating the death of Charlie for suspected neglect.(Supplied)

Makai’s relatives wrote the diagnosis was “a shock”, because pneumonia was not picked up at the Lyell McEwin Hospital nor by radiology.

The boy’s death is being investigated by Taskforce Prime, which was set up last month to investigate the death of six-year-old Charlie.

A government review — led by former police commissioner Mal Hyde — is underway to examine the interactions that agencies had with both children’s families and to identify any gaps in the child protection system.

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South Australian police investigate seven-year-old Craigmore boy’s death from suspected criminal neglect

South Australian detectives have launched a second investigation into the death of a child by suspected criminal neglect.

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The new case involves a seven-year-old boy, who died soon after he was taken to the Lyell McEwin Hospital by his father in February.

The boy’s five siblings, aged between seven and 16, were later removed from their home at Craigmore in Adelaide’s northern suburbs.

Police say they have examined volumes of evidence from child protection authorities, alongside a post-mortem report and advice from a pediatrician at the hospital.

“There is an enormous amount of records and we’ve only had a cursory look at those since we’ve got them, but it seems sufficient to launch a criminal investigation,” Detective Superintendent Des Bray said.

“Several serious health issues were identified but in themselves [were] not necessarily cause for immediate concern.”

He urged neighbours, friends and workers in government and private agencies to come forward and contact Crime Stoppers to assist the investigation.

“Essentially a case of criminal neglect occurs when a person who has a duty of care to a child fails to take all reasonable steps to protect the child from harm and the child dies or is harmed as a result of that neglect and the neglect is so serious that it warrants a criminal sanction,” Superintendent Bray said.

Police have now referred the boy’s death to Taskforce Prime, which was set up a fortnight ago to investigate the death of another child, a six year-old girl named Charlie.

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Charlie, aged six, died soon after arriving at the Lyell McEwin Hospital last month.(Facebook)

Charlie died soon after arriving unresponsive at the Lyell McEwin Hospital last month.

While there are no links between the two cases, police say there are some similarities.

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