meeting – Michmutters
Categories
Australia

Family who fled Afghanistan reunited in Adelaide after a decade apart, after successful court case against Australian government

A family who fled Afghanistan after their daughter was killed in a missile attack has finally been reunited in South Australia.

The Rezaee family had been separated for more than a decade as they waited for humanitarian visas to be processed.

Abdullah Rezaee said he was granted permanent refugee status in Australia in 2011, after he was forced to flee his homeland.

“I was working in an association and, because of that, my life was being threatened by the Taliban and I was at risk, so I couldn’t feel safe in Afghanistan, so I had to flee,” he said.

“That time was very hard for me, I was upset and sick.”

A young man in a maroon top hugs a small child wearing a red shirt
Fida Rezaee, 17, with her sister, Maliha, two.(ABC News: Che Chorley)

After moving to Pakistan as refugees, Abdullah’s wife, Fatima, and their surviving children applied for Australian visas in 2017.

Earlier this year, they still had received no response, so the family took the Australian government to court over the delay.

Their lawyer, Josephine Langbien, said the court case argued that the government had failed its legal responsibility to determine visa applications within a reasonable time.

“They had been waiting [more than] four years and I think anyone can agree that it is simply an unreasonable length of time to have to wait,” Ms Langbien said.

The Australian government granted the case and issued the family with permanent visas.

Weeks later the family were reunited in Adelaide.

A man wearing a black jacket and white shirt looks directly into the camera
Abdullah Rezaee and his family lived apart for a decade.(ABC News: Che Chorley)

Zamin Ali, 20, said there were tears of joy when he first saw his father.

“I was waiting for the moment of the reunion with my father. It was like a dream come true,” he said.

“It was as if I was waiting my whole life to be reunited with my father because we were apart for many years.”

Mr Ali now dreams of becoming a professional soccer player or a doctor.

His younger sister, 14-year-old Frozan, has been taking English lessons for new arrivals.

Mr Rezaee said it was “very important” that his children could go to school.

“In Pakistan and in Afghanistan they cannot go to school. They have a lot of problems,” he said.

“Now, here, they are going to school. I am very happy.”

A young smiling girl stares out of a window covered with a thin white curtain
Frozan Rezaee, 14, has been taking English lessons.(ABC News: Che Chorley)

The family’s four-year visa order is not uncommon.

Ms Langbien — who works at the Human Rights Law Center — said thousands of Afghan families remained separated while waiting for visas.

“After two decades of war, Australia owes a moral obligation to the people of Afghanistan,” she said.

“We have a responsibility to do more to help. We can do more to help.”

“We need the new government to increase its commitment to supporting families who are separated between Australia and Afghanistan and work so much faster to bring those families back together.”

The Human Rights Law Center said 211,000 Afghans have applied for humanitarian visas in Australia since the Taliban took control of Afghanistan a year ago.

Ms Langbien said more than 7,000 people from Afghanistan were currently waiting for family visas to be processed, and close to 5,000 of those have been waiting longer than two years for an answer.

“We promised additional humanitarian visas, but we know that only a few thousand of those visas have actually been issued,” she said.

A smiling woman wearing a gray hijab
Fatima Rezaee’s family were one of many waiting for visas to be processed.(ABC News: Che Chorley)

Federal government figures show that, in the past year, more than 1,700 Afghan partner and family visas have been granted.

Some of these applications were lodged back in 2012.

Arif Hussein from the Refugee Advice and Casework Service said the scale of the humanitarian crisis in Afghanistan was reflected in the number of people who have sought protection from the Australian government.

“It’s important to remember [that] many of these applicants are immediate family members of those in Australia: wives, husbands and children,” he said.

“Our new government must take the opportunity for concrete action for other people from Afghanistan by committing to, and implementing, a one-off, 20,000 humanitarian intake of the most vulnerable people.”

A Department of Home Affairs spokesperson said a total of 31,500 places would be available for Afghan nationals over the next four years.

“The Australian government remains committed to supporting the Afghan community at this distressing time,” the spokesperson said.

“The department is working to ensure that visa options continue to be available to Afghan nationals, both within Afghanistan and those who have been displaced from their home country.”

.

Categories
Australia

Sharon and Deidre had never met — the institution that brought about their father’s abuse connected them

Sharon Shillingsworth and Deidre Bolt are sisters in their 50s but have only just met for the first time.

WARNING: This story contains details of an Aboriginal person who has died and has been used with the permission of family.

Their separation was influenced by intergenerational trauma which stemmed from their father’s experiences as a child of the Stolen Generations.

It took the women years to track each other down, and while they had been connecting over the phone, a face-to-face meeting had eluded them until now.

It was a pivotal moment for both women; Ms Shillingsworth said she held her sister de ella for what she felt like “the longest time”.

Their father, John Carroll, was one of up to 600 Aboriginal boys who lived in the notorious Kinchela Boys Home in Kempsey on the NSW Mid North Coast.

The institution operated under the authority of the state’s Aborigines Protection Board and forcefully removed Indigenous children from their families and communities from 1924 to 1970.

young boys standing in a line outdoors
The Kinchela Boys Home in Kempsey opened in 1924 and operated up to 1970.(Supplied: Kinchela Boys Home Aboriginal Corporation)

Like many of the boys in the home, Mr Carroll’s life was plagued with psychological and physical trauma from the abuse he endured in the institution.

Ms Shillingsworth said the trauma her father suffered at the home affected his adult life.

“He was in a lot of turmoil, he basically drank to numb the pain; it was just heartbreaking learning what he went through,” she said.

Her father left her mother and later had three other children with another partner, one of whom was Ms Bolt.

‘They were lost’

While the siblings knew of each other’s existence, they had never had the opportunity to meet or contact each other until after Mr Carroll’s death in 2016.

“Our brother Neil hired a solicitor to find us; we had known about them [John, Neil and Deidre] and they had known about us, but they were lost,” Ms Shillingsworth said.

A list of young boys names that attended the boys home
A list of boys who were in the Kinchela Boys Home is displayed at the healing forum, including Deidre and Sharon’s father.(ABC News: Arianna Levy)

The solicitor managed to track down the siblings and connected them through Facebook.

“We’ve been talking over the phone for a few years now but had never seen each other face to face,” Ms Bolt said.

Ms Shillingsworth said with her sister living in Forster-Tuncurry and herself living “in the scrubs of Trundle” in central west NSW, linking up while also working six days a week was difficult.

“We were getting old too, I’m 57 and Deidre’s 53, we knew something had to happen soon,” Ms Shillingsworth said.

The meeting was facilitated by a charity set up to help the survivors of the Kinchela Boys Home and their families.

Operating with a collective goal of healing the trauma and intergenerational trauma suffered in the home, Kinchela Boys Home Aboriginal Corporation (KBHAC) holds annual healing forums to help survivors and their descendants connect.

A metal gate with the words 'boys home' welded to the top.
Boys were stripped of their names and given numbers at Kinchela Boys Home.(Supplied: National Museum of Australia/Katie Shanahan)

.

Categories
Entertainment

Lisa Kudrow addresses lack of diversity on Friends

Lisa Kudrow has weighed in on the lack of diversity in Friends and claimed the show’s creators had “no business writing stories about people of colour”.

The actress, who played Phoebe Buffay for 10 seasons, said David Crane and Marta Kauffman likely wrote the series about their own lives and therefore did not have the experiences of being a person of color.

Lisa has previously admitted the series lacked representation, stating that if the hit show was made today, it would include a more diverse cast.

“I feel like it was a show created by two people who went to Brandeis and wrote about their lives after college. And for shows especially, when it’s going to be a comedy that’s character-driven, you write what you know,” Kudrow, 59, told the Daily Beast.

“They have no business writing stories about the experiences of being a person of colour. I think at that time, the big problem that I was seeing was, ‘Where’s the apprenticeship?””

Show creator Marta Kauffman has also publicly expressed the “embarrassment” of how she “didn’t know better” about diversity 25 years ago.

“I’ve learned a lot in the last 20 years,” Kauffman said in an interview with The Los Angeles Times.

“Admitting and accepting guilt is not easy. It’s painful looking at yourself in the mirror. I’m embarrassed that I didn’t know better 25 years ago.”

“It took me a long time to begin to understand how I internalized systemic racism.

“I’ve been working really hard to become an ally, an anti-racist. And this seemed to me to be a way that I could participate in the conversation from a white woman’s perspective.”

Kauffman has since pledged $4 million to support African American students in the US.

The Marta F. Kauffman ’78 Professorship in African and African American Studies “will support a distinguished scholar with a concentration in the study of the peoples and cultures of Africa and the African diaspora” and “assist the department to recruit more expert scholars and teachers , map long-term academic and research priorities and provide new opportunities for students to engage in interdisciplinary scholarship,” the Waltham, Massachusetts-based university announced.

“It took me a long time to begin to understand how I internalized systemic racism,” Kauffman, who is reportedly worth nearly $600 million, told Brandeis.

“I’ve been working really hard to become an ally, an anti-racist. And this seemed to me to be a way that I could participate in the conversation from a white woman’s perspective.”

Kauffman told the LA Times that she has received “nothing but love” since announcing the pledge along with “people acknowledging it was long overdue.”

“In this case, I’m finally, literally putting my money where my mouth is,” Kauffman said. “I feel I was finally able to make some difference in the conversation.”

“I have to say, after agreeing to this and when I stopped sweating, it didn’t unburden me, but it lifted me up. But until in my next production, I can do it right, it isn’t over.

“I want to make sure from now on in every production I do that I am conscious in hiring people of color and actively pursue young writers of colour. I want to know I will act differently from now on. And then I will feel unburdened.”

.

Categories
US

Gunstock Commission formally votes to rehire management team

WMUR’S SCOTT COOK WAS THERE AND HAS MORE FROM GILFORD. EMOTIONS RUNNING HIGH AT GUNSTOCK MOUNTAIN IN GILFORD… AFTER ANOTHER EMERGENCY MEETING WAS CALLED SUNDAY… TO CONSIDER A MOTION TO RE-HIRE THE RESORT’S MANAGEMENT TEAM. THE COMMISSION áDIDá LEGALLY VOTE TO RE-HIRE THE MANAGEMENT TEAM… WHO AGREED TO RETURN TO WORK… AS LONG AS CHAIRMAN OF THE COMMISSION — DR DAVID STRANG — STEPS DOWN. STRANG ATTENDED THE MEETING VIA ZOOM… BUT DID NOT RESIGN FROM HIS POSITION, DESPITE DOZENS OF PLEAS FROM HIS FELLOW COMMISSIONERS… THE PUBLIC… AND FROM THE BELKNAP COUNTY DELEGATION. LEGALLY… GUNSTOCK –WHICH IS OWNED BY THE COUNTY — NEEDS 3 COMMISSIONERS IN PLACE TO OPEN AND OPERATE. BUT SINCE TWO OTHER COMMISSIONER — PETER NESS AND GARY KIEDAISCH — RESIGNED AMID TURMOIL IN RECENT WEEKS… STRANG’S RESIGNATION WOULD LEAVE ONLY TWO COMMISSIONERS. REGARDLESS… THE COUNTY DELEGATION SAYS IT’S PREPARED TO HOLD ANOTHER EMERGENCY MEETING MONDAY… WHERE THEY WOULD OFFICIALLY VOTE TO REMOVE STRANG…. AND ELECT A TEMPORARY COMMISSIONER.

Gunstock Area Commission formally votes to rehire management team

Activities will resume once temporary commissioner is in place

Another emergency meeting was held Sunday by the Gunstock Area Commission in hopes to reopen the resort. That team resigned in recent weeks and said they could no longer work with the commission’s chairman. The commission formally voted to rehire the management team, however, that’s contingent upon the current chair David Strang resigning or being voted out by the Belknap County delegation.”I’m very happy with the outcome, and I think you saw a lot of other people in this room were very happy with it as well,” said Doug Lambert, Gunstock Area Commissioner. Strang attended the meeting over Zoom, but did not resign from his position, despite dozens of pleas from his fellow commissioners, the public and from the Belknap County delegation. “I’m optimistic. I’ve always had faith that the local leadership of this area would come through. I’m glad — although it’s the 11th hour — they did,” said Jade Wood, Gunstock Area Commissioner. can see that the community’s always been recruited, the employees always been recruited to stand behind this mountain, and ultimately, we are too.”Legally, Gunstock, which is owned by the county, needs three commissioners in place to open and operate. two other commissioners, Peter Ness and Gary Kiedaisch, resigned amid turmoil in recent weeks, Strang’s resignation would leave only two commissioners. Regardless, the delegation is prepared to hold another emergency meeting Monday night where they would vote Strang out and elect a temporary commissioner. “I’m hoping that it does not come to a meeting tomorrow night. I’m hoping that Dr. Strang will do the right thing and step aside if his interests really are with the mountain, or if he’s not able to fulfill his oath,” Wood said. The Belknap County Delegation said they do have commissioner candidates in mind to replace Strand, and if they put them into position, the mountain will be able to reopen and all activities will be able to resume.The commission said they’re still planning on hosting Soulfest, a Christian music festival at the mountain next weekend .

Another emergency meeting was held Sunday by the Gunstock Area Commission in hopes of reopening the resort.

That team resigned in recent weeks and said they could no longer work with the commission’s chairman.

The commission formally voted to rehire the management team, however, that’s contingent upon the current chair David Strang resigning or being voted out by the Belknap County delegation.

“I’m very happy with the outcome, and I think you saw a lot of other people in this room were very happy with it as well,” said Doug Lambert, Gunstock Area Commissioner.

Strang attended the meeting over Zoom, but did not resign from his position, despite dozens of pleas from his fellow commissioners, the public and from the Belknap County delegation.

“I’m optimistic. I’ve always had faith that the local leadership of this area would come through. I’m glad — although it’s the 11th hour — they did,” said Jade Wood, Gunstock Area Commissioner. can see that the community’s always been recruited, the employees always been recruited to stand behind this mountain, and ultimately, we are too.”

Legally, Gunstock, which is owned by the county, needs three commissioners in place to open and operate. Since two other commissioners, Peter Ness and Gary Kiedaisch, resigned amid turmoil in recent weeks, Strang’s resignation would leave only two commissioners.

Regardless, the delegation is prepared to hold another emergency meeting Monday night where they would vote Strang out and elect a temporary commissioner.

“I’m hoping that it does not come to a meeting tomorrow night. I’m hoping that Dr. Strang will do the right thing and step aside if his interests really are with the mountain, or if he’s not able to fulfill his oath ,” Wood said.

The Belknap County Delegation said they do have commissioner candidates in mind to replace Strand, and if they put them into position, the mountain will be able to reopen and all activities will be able to resume.

The commission said they’re still planning on hosting Soulfest, a Christian music festival at the mountain next weekend.

.