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Shirley Barrett obituary: ‘She never stopped being the life of the party’ | australian movie

When Shirley Barrett’s first feature film, Love Serenade, won the Caméra d’Or at Cannes in 1996, she briefly found herself flavor of the month in Hollywood. Flown to LA to wine and dine with Warren Beatty and his friends from him, Shirley later portrayed the visit as a series of hilarious embarrassments:

“Just as I was about to get into the car, he suddenly held out his arms wide in what I dizzily interpreted to be Warren’s way of saying ‘Let’s hug’. After all, that’s what Americans do, don’t they? I threw myself headlong into Warren Beatty’s arms. And just as I did, I was suddenly gripped by a terrible thought: Warren was just stretching.”

A respected film-maker, television director and author, Shirley Barrett died in Sydney on 3 August after a long illness.

Set in a small northern Victorian town called ‘Sunray,’ Love Serenade tells of two unworldly sisters, Dimity (Miranda Otto) and Vicki-Ann (Rebecca Frith), who are discombobulated by the arrival of the town’s new DJ, Ken Sherry (George Shevtsov). Sherry is aloof, controlling and predatory – though by the film’s close we are uncertain who he is hunting whom. Add a throbbing 1970s soundtrack from Barry White and you have an unlikely mix that perfectly captures the sensibility of the auteur.

Initially more appreciated overseas than in Australia, Love Serenade has become canonical. Critic Guy Rundle described it in 2017 as “the best movie made in Australia, a demure and perfectly judged thing.”

Shirley Barrett was born in 1961 and raised in Melbourne. A sickly child, she was often kept home from school. She and her older sister de ella, my wife Karen, created stories and elaborate games. When Karen’s class was studying Egypt at school, Shirley waited impatiently for her to come home every afternoon so they could continue to nurse their dolls through the tribulations of Tutankhamun’s Curse. From an early age she kept a journal, specializing in nonsense-verse, an interest she maintained into adulthood, often regaling captive audiences at family lunches with the rhymed adventures of the household pets.

In 1981, while studying at the University of Melbourne, Shirley went to a party and met an art student, Chris Norris, who became the love of her life. Typically for Shirley, she didn’t just fall for Chris – she fell for everything about Chris; Robinvale, the eventual location for Love Serenade, was her home town. The couple moved to Sydney in 1985 when, on her third attempt, Shirley was accepted at the Australian Film Television and Radio School. She and Chris were married in Las Vegas in 1992 by an Elvis impersonator.

Love Serenade brought Shirley acclaim, but difficult life-choices as well. Hollywood came courting, and while Shirley was flattered by the attention, she decided to remain in Australia. She and Chris had a baby girl to think about, with a second on the way. Even more important, she wanted to write as well as direct her films from her – and, as the misunderstanding with Beatty humorously illustrated, the US was not a culture she felt she could effortlessly write into. Though Shirley never regretted the decision to stay in Sydney, she understood it meant she was overtaken by some of her contemporaries of her.

Still, David Geffen of DreamWorks wrote a large check for her next feature, Walk the Talk, which was released in 2001. Set in the seedy clubs and bars of the Gold Coast, it tells of dreamers and schemers, two-bit losers and thugs -for-hire. Like Love Serenade, the film is sui generis, and attracted plenty of admirers. But DreamWorks lost its investment and did not release Walk the Talk in the US.

Shirley’s third feature, South Solitary (2010), is a change of pace. Set in 1927, it stars Miranda Otto once again, as Meredith, a lonely young woman with a complicated past who accompanies her uncle George (Barry Otto) to take charge of a lighthouse on a remote island, where she is thrown with lighthouse keeper Jake Fleet (Marton Csokas), a damaged WWI veteran. Again, the film did not make money, but it pleased many critics, and Shirley’s script won a number of literary prizes.

Meanwhile, Shirley had been building another career for herself in television, directing numerous episodes of shows such as Home and Away, Offspring and Love My Way. While these were not cultural milestones in the way her films de ella aspired to be, Shirley loved the camaraderie of the TV set, and prided herself on getting along with her crew as well as with her cast de ella.

But Shirley saved her biggest surprises for last. Researching an idea for a feature film on the whaling culture in Eden on the NSW south coast, in the first decade of the 20th century, she realized the challenge of raising the investment for such a project would be overwhelming. Her mum suggested doing it as fiction instead, and the result was her first novel, Rush Oh!, in 2015. Primly narrated by Mary Davidson, spinster-in-waiting and eldest daughter of Eden’s heroic whaler George Davidson, it’s Moby-Dick meets Pride and Prejudice meets My Brilliant Career.

Shirley’s second novel, The Bus on Thursday, is a quirky horror-romcom set at Talbingo in the Snowy Mountains (another location with Norris family connections). Its hero, Eleanor, a breast-cancer survivor, goes to Talbingo as a replacement teacher for the saintly Miss Barker, whose disappearance is one of many deepening mysteries that suck her into their vortex.

The book was inspired by the experiences of Shirley’s friend Kate, who had surgery for breast cancer as a young woman, recovered, but struggled with the after-effects. In a grim coincidence, Shirley herself was diagnosed with breast cancer as she was completing the book, in 2017. As she later wrote:

“I would put ‘don’t write a book about cancer’ right up there with other government health guidelines, like how much alcohol you should consume if you don’t want to get cancer (none). Can writing a book about cancer give you cancer? Apparently! So that’s my first tip: don’t.”

Shirley remained a source of fun and support to her family and friends throughout her illness, even as the disease spread through her bones and her brain. Until her final weeks de ella she never stopped being the life of the party and was able to celebrate her 60th birthday de ella with extended family in November last year.

I’ve known Shirley Barrett since she was 15. Discussing this article with her, I asked if she had any words in conclusion:

“I feel I’ve had a lucky and privileged life, even though I’m dying a bit earlier than I’d have liked to.

“I’ve had a loving family, a wonderful husband, beautiful children, and a career where I’ve been able to do exactly what I’ve wanted to do. I don’t feel I’ve missed out on anything.”

Shirley Barrett is survived by her mother, Frances; her sister of her Karen and brothers Graham and Andrew; and by Chris and their adult daughters, Sabrina and Emmeline.

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Khloe Kardashian ‘liked’ post about Kris Jenner exposing Taylor Swift’s private jet use

Khloe Kardashian ‘liked’ humorous post about Kris Jenner being behind Taylor Swift’s private jet use being exposed

Khloe Kardashian liked an Instagram post that jokingly hinted her mother Kris Jenner was behind the recent story revealing Taylor Swift’s frequent private jet trips.

The post was from the Kardashian meme account Kardashian Social, with text on the bottom reading, ‘Who leaked that Taylor Swift’s private jet took 170 flights this year?’

The post showed a clip of Jenner, 66, casually removing a pair of sunglasses ahead of an interview, declaring she’s ‘Kris f***ing Jenner.’

The latest: Khloe Kardashian, 38, liked an Instagram post that jokingly hinted her mother Kris Jenner, 66, was behind the recent story revealing Taylor Swift's frequent private jet trips

Swift, 32, was snapped last year in NYC

The latest: Khloe Kardashian, 38, liked an Instagram post that jokingly hinted her mother Kris Jenner, 66, was behind the recent story revealing Taylor Swift’s frequent private jet trips

The post came after a study from the analytics film Yard named Swift, 32, atop a list of celebs who are the ‘worst private jet CO2 emission offenders’ over the first seven months of 2022.

Yard reported that Swift’s jet has been on ‘a total of 170 flights since January’ and ‘has amassed a vast 22,923 minutes in the air,’ equivalent to 15.9 days, which is ‘quite a large amount considering that she is not currently touring. ‘

Swift’s jet ‘has an average flight time of just 80 minutes and an average of 139.36 miles per flight,’ according to Yard, and ‘her total flight emissions for the year [are] 1,184.8 times more than the average person’s total annual emissions.’

Yard noted that in one instance, Swift jet this year was flown for a 36-minute trip from from Missouri to Nashville.

The post showed a clip of Jenner, 66, casually removing a pair of sunglasses ahead of an interview, declaring she's 'Kris f***ing Jenner'

The post showed a clip of Jenner, 66, casually removing a pair of sunglasses ahead of an interview, declaring she’s ‘Kris f***ing Jenner’

A study from the analytics film Yard named Swift, 32, atop a list of celebs who are the 'worst private jet CO2 emission offenders' over the first seven months of 2022

A study from the analytics film Yard named Swift, 32, atop a list of celebs who are the ‘worst private jet CO2 emission offenders’ over the first seven months of 2022

A spokesperson for the Grammy-winning singer told Buzzfeed News that Swift’s ‘jet is loaned out regularly to other individuals,’ and ‘to attribute most or all of these trips to her is blatantly incorrect.’

The Kardashian-Jenner family did not emerge unscathed with the release of the list, as Kim Kardashian was seventh on the list and Kylie Jenner’s partner Travis Scott finished tenth.

Kylie and Scott recently were panned online for the same issues after Kylie posted a shot of she and Scott in front of a pair of jets, captioning the image, ‘You wanna take mine or yours?’

The subsequent trip the celeb couple took lasted 17 minutes, as they traveled from Camarillo, California, to Van Nuys, California, according to the Twitter account @CelebJets.

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Today’s Wordle Answer (August 5th, 2022): Puzzle 412 Hints, Clues, and Solution

The Wordle answer today for August 5th, 2022, can be unpredictable and prone to errors, but also a lot of high-octane fun.

Puzzle 412 features the most challenging of all the Wordle tricks: the dreaded double letter. To make matters worse, it’s also a consonant that doesn’t come up very often – only twice in the last month, in fact – so you’ve got your work cut out for you if you’re going to narrow things down in time .

Double letters are particularly difficult because there are so many options to consider in Wordle. It’s very easy to discount any orange or green letters you get from your future guesses as you try to eliminate others.

Once you’ve got a couple of letters in the right place though, hopefully you should be able to fill in the blanks.

To make things a little bit easier, we’ve compiled some Wordle hints for August 5th, 2022, to give you a few clues, as well as a list of recent solutions from the last month if you’re stuck for ideas.


Clues and hints for Today’s Wordle Answer

When you finally manage to place a couple of tricky letters in Wordle, it can be as exhilarating as jumping over dunes. But all it takes is a couple of mistakes to feel like you’re stranded in the desert.

To help squash any errors, here are a few Wordle hints to give you some ideas.

Your clues for Puzzle 412 are:

  • The answer contains just 1 vowel
  • There’s a repeated consonant with the letters next to each other in the word
  • The word contains 3 ‘descenders’ (letters with a tail that goes below the writing line) at the end of the word and 1 ‘ascender’ (letter with a tail that goes above the writing line) at the start

Previous Wordle Answers

While words only ever appear once in Word, it still pays to know what’s already been used – even if it’s just what to avoid. Here is a list of all of the recent Wordle solutions from over the last month to give you some ideas.

  • #382 – Fluff – July 6
  • #383 – Agape – July 7
  • #384 – Voice – July 8
  • #385 – Stead – July 9
  • #386 – Berth – July 10
  • #387 – Madam – July 11
  • #388 – Night – July 12
  • #389 – Bland – July 13
  • #390 – Liver – July 14
  • #391 – Wedge – July 15
  • #392 – Roomy – July 16
  • #393 – Wacky – July 17
  • #394 – Flock – July 18
  • #395 – Angry – July 19
  • #396 – Trite – July 20
  • #397 – Aphid – July 21
  • #398 – Tryst – July 22
  • #399 – Midge – July 23
  • #400 – Power – July 24
  • #401 – elope – July 25
  • #402 – Cinch – July 26
  • #403 – Motto – July 27
  • #404 – Stomp – July 28
  • #405 – Upset – July 29
  • #406 – Bluff – July 30
  • #407 – Cramp – July 31
  • #408 – Quarter – August 1
  • #409 – Coyly – August 2
  • #410 – Youth – August 3
  • #411 – Rhyme – August 4

Today’s Word Answer August 5th

The Wordle answer today is buggy.

Modern applications like a dune buggy or buggy code might come to mind when you first think of buggy these days, but as a word it’s been in use a lot longer than you might think.

Buggy has referred to a covered, four-wheeled carriage since the late 1700s, but no one knows why. The best guess is that it was a colloquial term that came about because the roof of a carriage looks a bit like a beetle’s shell.

Using buggy to mean “infested with bugs” has also been around for a long time. While it might seem like a more modern way of speaking, adding the suffix “-y” onto the end of a word to mean “full of, or characterized by” has actually been a linguistic phenomenon since the times of Old English.

Test your mettle against these Wordle alternatives if you’re still angling for some more word game action!


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Duchess of Cambridge Kate Middleton’s surprise encounter with young boy

Sports journalist and former Commonwealth Games champion Matthew Syed described his son’s surprise encounter with Kate Middleton.

In his Tuesday column in The Timesthe former table tennis player said he overheard a conversation between his son and a seemingly random woman while he was using the bathroom on a train on the way to the Commonwealth Games.

He only realized who his son was talking to right before he got off the train.

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Journalist Matthew Syed’s son bumped into the Duchess of Cambridge on the way to the Commonwealth Games. (WireImage)

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“‘Come on Ted,’ I say, ‘we have to get off!’ ‘Oh, and thanks for keeping him company…’ I say turning to the woman waiting for her turn from her when I am stopped in my tracks.

“My brow furrows, my face works. ‘Kate?’, I blurt out. There are no security guards in the vestibule; no armed guards. But here is the Duchess of Cambridge, chatting merrily with my son.”

After getting off the train, Syed asked his son if he knew who he was talking to, and he replied, “No idea, but she was really nice.”

The journalist said their interaction took place while he was in the bathroom.

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The Duchess of Cambridge was chatting to the boy while waiting her turn outside the train toilet. (Getty)

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“Judging by the laughter, they are having a whale of a time,” he wrote. “I hear my son telling the lady that his father once won Commonwealth gold and sense that he is brandishing the medal he has brought along for the occasion.”

He says the group continued chatting right up until they arrived at the Birmingham New Street station.

Syed also praised Kate for her amicability to his son,

“The Duchess had no idea she was chatting to the son of a journalist so I take this to reflect her character and sense of duty.”

“The monarchy is in consummate hands.”

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How to make ANYONE like you: Michelle Bowden’s How to Persuade helps you boost charisma

A communications coach has revealed her go-to tricks for improving your ‘likeability’ and charisma – and says limiting jerky movements having clean fingernails, wearing flattering clothing and projecting ‘warmth’ are key to success.

Michelle Bowden, a certified speaking professional, has delivered her Persuasive Presentation Skills masterclass for more than 12,000 people and works with the who’s who of international business to help them win multi-million-dollar bids and projects.

Now, she’s written her new book How to Persuade to equip readers with the skills, tips and actions you need to get exactly what you want and improve your charisma.

Michelle Bowden, a certified speaking professional, has delivered her Persuasive Presentation Skills masterclass for more than 12,000 people

Michelle Bowden, a certified speaking professional, has delivered her Persuasive Presentation Skills masterclass for more than 12,000 people

‘It’s a fact that likeable people are the ones who get the furthest in life. Even if you’re not the smartest or most experienced, if you are the most likeable, you’ll often be the most persuasive at the moment,’ Michelle says.

‘In contrast, unlikeable people are a turn-off. They destroy the joy and can make people feel uncomfortable, judged and fearful.

‘The four most unlikeable behaviors in others were unsatisfactory grooming, killing the fun, and ignoring or talking over others.’

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What is the biggest turn off?

  • 1. Unsatisfactory grooming 7 votes
  • 2. Killing the fun 5 votes
  • 3. Ignoring people 14 votes
  • 4. Talking over others 11 votes

1.Be attractive

Whether you like this fact or not, attractive people get more breaks in life than their ‘plain’ counterparts.

Business psychologist Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic reported in 2019 that people who don’t fit a society’s dominant aesthetic criteria simply don’t get the same breaks in life as those who do.

And psychologist and researcher at Harvard University Nancy L Etcoff and her colleagues published a 2011 study that found that groomed women who were wearing makeup were seen as more attractive, competent, likeable and trustworthy than women who presented with a bare face. Pretty convincing!

The good news is that ‘attractiveness’ doesn’t really relate to your ‘natural’ beauty. Whatever you look like, you can certainly make the most of your qualities and features.

Whether you like this fact or not, attractive people get more breaks in life than their 'plain' counterparts

Whether you like this fact or not, attractive people get more breaks in life than their ‘plain’ counterparts

You don’t have to spend a lot of money making yourself attractive. Ask yourself the following:

• Is your hair styled the best way for your face? Is it well kept and stylish?

• Do you keep yourself clean and tidy?

• Are you wearing clothes that flatter your body type?

• Are your nose and ear hairs trimmed?

• Do you smell good?

• Are your teeth clean?

• Are your fingernails well kept?

• Do you have clean shoes, and are your clothes laundered and ironed without food stains and mess?

• Did you tuck in your shirt?

You may think this is fussy and no-one else’s business, and the bad news is that you think that at your own peril. This stuff counts when it comes to persuasion.

The three ways to boost your charisma – and why it matters

Why be charismatic?

Charismatic people are attractive, likeable, and respected. They convey a contagious confidence for their point of view and can win people over with their magnetic personality and charm. When someone is charismatic, people want to be like them, and they also want to spend time with them. And when someone is charismatic, they are automatically more believable, no matter their point of view. You will most definitely be more persuasive if you can develop your perceived charisma.

There are three areas to work on if you want to build your perceived charisma with others:

1. Presence

Presence is about a smoothness of activity. Imagine a swan gliding along the water. They seem calm, serene, and controlled. Under the water their legs are kicking and paddling furiously, but you don’t see all that commotion.

To ensure you seem smooth on the surface it’s important to limit stressful behavior such as jerky movements, closed body language, and impulsive comments, or actions.

You can demonstrate power by holding an upright, commanding posture and maintaining direct-connected eye contact

You can demonstrate power by holding an upright, commanding posture and maintaining direct-connected eye contact

2.Power

Power is all about your self-belief and how much you like and back yourself. It’s about an inner confidence that radiates from you and implies success.

You can demonstrate power by holding an upright, commanding posture, maintaining direct-connected eye contact, and by your superior ability to articulate your point through excellent structure and clever storytelling.

Perhaps you could begin to improve your power and charisma by participating in the conversations around you. Try to inject a short story, an example, or a metaphor (even in a small way) into every conversation.

3.Warmth

Warmth is about your perceived care and acceptance of the other person. If you are a charismatic person, you put people at ease and you make people feel amazing!

You make others feel important and as though they matter. This of course can be very alluring and addictive to the people around you. People want to spend time with someone who makes them feel worthy.

If you’re keen to develop this capability aim to do all the activities that build rapport easily, care about others, remember key facts about them.

Interestingly warmth is also very much conveyed through the eyes and facial expressions. If you’d like to improve your warmth and therefore your charisma you could practice looking at people in the same way you would look at a person you care for deeply (don’t be weird about this though!).

2. Smile and ‘smize’

Smiling is a winning behavior recognized internationally as a sign of positivity. Did you know that babies are born with the ability to smile? People who smile are seen by others as confident, positive and attractive.

You appear younger when you smile a lot because of the way smiling affects the muscles in your face. Smiling is even good for you because it releases endorphins and other chemicals that help you relax and feel good.

Unsurprisingly, an American Association of Cosmetic Dentistry study found that people were more likely to remember your smile than the first thing you said.

A wonderful strategy for persuasion is to not just smile but ‘smize’ – or smile with your eyes. This is a term coined by supermodel Tyra Banks.

Over 50 different types of smiles are possible, but the one that is considered the most sincere is the smize – it pushes up into your eyes, your eyes sparkle and you look genuinely happy.

Unsurprisingly, an American Association of Cosmetic Dentistry study found that people were more likely to remember your smile than the first thing you said

Unsurprisingly, an American Association of Cosmetic Dentistry study found that people were more likely to remember your smile than the first thing you said

3. Laugh and use humor to negotiate

Laughing is a wonderful way to build rapport with people because playful communication triggers good feelings and a positive emotional connection.

You probably know that a sense of humor is one of the first things people look for in a life partner – because people who can laugh are more likely to let go of defensiveness, act more spontaneously and release inhibitions.

Funny people are likeable. People who laugh freely are thought of as joyful, light and fun to be around. Who wouldn’t want that?

Humor that’s working for both parties can also help you negotiate more effectively, resolve conflict and move people forward. It’s true that laughter unites people during difficult times. Befriend funny people and watch and read funny things daily.

Whether you are standing or sitting down, aligning your shoulders with the other person and keeping your hands open and obvious suggests that you are interested and engaged in the conversation

Whether you are standing or sitting down, aligning your shoulders with the other person and keeping your hands open and obvious suggests that you are interested and engaged in the conversation

4. Show your hands and don’t fidget

Showing your hands signals safety – the people around you have nothing to fear.

Whether you are standing or sitting down, aligning your shoulders with the other person and keeping your hands open and obvious suggests that you are interested and engaged in the conversation.

Turning away, twisting your body or hiding your hands means either a lack of interest or disagreement.

You also shouldn’t do a whole lot of other things with your hands if you’re aiming to be trustworthy. For example, don’t cross your arms, put your hands in your pocket, hold your crotch, clasp your hands behind your back, hold your fingers in a steeple position, touch your face or hair, or fidget with your rings or clothes.

These distracting hand movements stop your stakeholder from listening properly. They may even start to distrust you.

Turning away, twisting your body or hiding your hands means either a lack of interest or disagreement

Turning away, twisting your body or hiding your hands means either a lack of interest or disagreement

Michelle has written her new book How to Persuade to equip readers with the skills, tips and actions you need to get exactly what you want and improve your charisma.

Michelle has written her new book How to Persuade to equip readers with the skills, tips and actions you need to get exactly what you want and improve your charisma.

5. Listen and don’t talk about people

Bestselling author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Stephen Covey, wisely said, ‘Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply’.

Isn’t it just so irritating when you are talking and someone speaks over the top of you? Doing so implies that the person doesn’t value what you’re saying. It breaks rapport and prevents the formation of goodwill.

Try to do what you can to listen when someone is talking. Take a moment of pause before adding your point.

If you focus on these five actions, you’ll be even more likeable than you already are and look out world – because this is one of the skills you need to get what you want!

Edited extracts from How to Persuade: The skills you need to get what you want (Wiley $29.95, 1 Aug 2022) by Michelle Bowden.

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Tori Haschka on a ‘mum friend’ from a pyramid scheme.

The next morning after another ragged night, my eye was clogged with conjunctivitis.

“What do you think?” B messaged with a collection of sunflower emojis. “Did you watch the links?”

“I think I have my hands full,” I felt back. “It’s not for me.” I shared a photo from the doctor’s office where I was with my son, who now had croup.

“I’ll check in with you when you guys get better,” she sent with two cross finger emojis and a kissing face.

Except she never really did.

Over the next few weeks, I got included on emails for discounts on cleansers and two more invitations to join in webinars. Her social media also pivoted and started pushing people to come join her ‘Dream Team’.

I had my suspicions about what this was. I’m certainly not the first woman to have someone befriend them in the name of multi-level-marketing.

I wasn’t a potential friend. I was a mark. We were both links in a chain that went across the world and formed a pyramid, with post-birth, lost and lonely women as easy targets. Of course everyone craves flexible work with a community of like-minded women. It’s just that this version is a miracle.

These are canny structures that prey on vulnerable women. She wasn’t going to make real money from selling products. What really needed was to recruit other people below her. That’s how these schemes flourish. The products, even if they work are mainly window dressing. And when they run out of people to recruit, the money dries up too.

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Once I stopped buying the products and said not to join the team, she stopped reaching out. She had other people in her sights of her. I did see her once more before they eventually moved back overseas. We were lining up for coffee at the kiosk at the mall. We had some brief chat. She impressed on me how well she was doing, how fabulous things were. I saw that in one of the webinars too. ‘Always project a vision of success.’ That’s another way to lure people in.

The problem was, I no longer really trusted what she said. I just kept on waiting for her to find another pain point to press. I just kept waiting for her to try to close.

I eventually put the most expensive eyelash serum I’ve ever bought into the back of my drawer. All it gave me was gunky eyes. Eventually, with a little more sleep under my belt I could see the world clearer. I went back to writing; working on novels; one of which is about the impossibility of trying to do it all, with threads of social contagion, multilevel marketing and the temptation of optimizing relationships woven through it.

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He won the Melbourne Cup at 14, then vanished. Who was Johnny Day?

The Australian “cultural footprint” that Drewe creates for Johnny shimmers like a reflection in a trick mirror, or in Bert Flugelman’s great stainless-steel cones in the sculpture garden of the Australian National Gallery. Stare at them from one angle and you see ludicrous human distortions, but shift slightly and, suddenly, you see yourself.

The cover of Robert Drewe's Nimblefoot.

The cover of Robert Drewe’s Nimblefoot.

Drewe hooks his reader with a classic yarn synopsis. It begins, “This is a tale of Johnny Day, his country’s first – and youngest – international sporting champion…” and ends, “Then Johnny Day dropped out of sight. People wondered what had happened to him. Wild stories started up…”

And wild they are. in media res is Drewe’s mode, and his reader is immediately thrust onto the Ballarat cricket ground track with Johnny: “The Moscow Maestro is wearing a nanny goat around his neck like a scarf. Tom Day [Johnny’s father] said keep an eye on him, he’s the danger. Forget the goat cravat, the Maestro’s notorious for his sudden pre-race deadleg, the quick knee-blow specialty that numbs a competitor’s thigh for days.”

In nine pages of virtuoso writing, Drewe creates Johnny’s milieu, hints at dangers that will haunt him (“And now he knows what an enemy looks like … A tall pale man with shiny black hair”), sketches his vulnerability (“He needs his mother to hug him”) and his elusiveness, his metaphorical and actual nimble feet.

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And as it begins, so the story runs – exhilarating in its pace and vividness. During one race (circuits of the MCG) Johnny can’t concentrate: “Anything distracts him. A bugle blast from some show-off in the stands, rainbows glistening in an oily puddle, a windblown paper bag. But mostly birds.”

It is Drewe’s potent skill to turn “distractions” into art. He is a magpie writer, with the bird’s uncanny ability to fuse seemingly random pieces of observation into a coherent narrative, patterned and integrated.

Throughout Nimblefoot’s extraordinary tumult of event – ​​maternal love and loss, betrayal, rape and murder in high places, cross-continental flight, immigration scandal, quarantine, plague, pursuit (I kept being reminded of the indelible savagery of Sam Peckinpah’s The Wild Bunch), Drewe sustains his rhythm and pattern of significance, like a skilled charioteer, controlling exuberance, and alert to danger. If I found the swivel of voice – from narrative to Johnny’s first person – occasionally disconcerting, that’s a minor quibble.

Give this book to American friends. Or to anyone who might relish serious Australian ironic play with language, meaning, and timeless relevance.

nimblefoot by Robert Drewe is published by Hamish Hamilton, $32.99.

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Kim Kardashian reveals body fat percentage: ‘Athlete category’

Reality star, billionaire businesswoman, lawyer and now “athlete”.

Kim Kardashian, 41, has revealed her overall body fat percentage – or lack thereof – telling fans she falls into the esteemed “athlete category.”

The mother-of-four shared on Instagram she underwent body composition testing with US company BodySpec, with her results showing she has a total body fat of just 18.8 per cent.

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According to the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, what is considered a “healthy body fat” depends on your age. In Kardashian’s case, women aged 40 to 59 should fall between “23 per cent to 33 per cent” of overall body fat to be considered healthy.

Meanwhile, the athlete category falls anywhere between 14 and 20 per cent.

Elsewhere in the results, Kardashian further claimed her bones were stronger than “93-97 per cent” of people.

Kardashian, who initially made a name for herself thanks to her voluptuous figure, has significantly trimmed down in recent years after switching to a plant-based diet.

But her oft-extreme methods to achieve her figure have courted controversy at times, more recently when she revealed her rapid weight loss to fit into Marilyn Monroe’s original gown for the Met Gala in May.

She said on the red carpet she lost 7kg in just three weeks to fit into the iconic Jean Louis gown Monroe wore to sing ‘Happy Birthday’ to President John F. Kennedy in 1962.

In an interview with Allure in July, the SKIMS founder defended the move, likening herself to an actor preparing for a role.

“If I was starving and doing it really unhealthy, I would say that, of course, that’s not a good message,” she began. “But I had a nutritionist, I had a trainer. I have never drunk more water in my life. I don’t see the criticism for other people when they lost weight for roles — they are [considered] geniuses for their craft.”

Kardashian went on to admit she cares about how she looks “more than 90 per cent of the people on this planet,” adding that she has learned to be more carefree in recent times — but still “hates” one aspect of her body.

“I’m at peace with not being perfect and I wasn’t like that before, I hate my hands — they’re wrinkly and gross,” she said.

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Beauty and the Geek finale: What happened?

“Honestly, I couldn’t have asked for anybody better,” he said of the Beauty. “She was the best partner. I love her so much.

“I’m just very happy that we got spend time together because she really made me shine and I felt like I made her do the exact same thing. We just had so much fun together on the whole experience.”

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Emily says Beauty and the Geek helped her heal after being assaulted.

Emily had a tough experience before entering Beauty and the Geektelling 9Entertainment she was a victim of sexual assault just months before the show began filming.

“When everything had happened, I was broken,” she said. “Two of my friends had to pick me up off the floor.”

She says the show helped her to heal, adding that she made lifelong pals with her partner Jason and the rest of the Beauties from the show.

“I feel like coming on to the show, it was like God sending me something to pick me back up off the floor and help me heal, and it honestly did,” she explained. “It made me see my worth, it made me enjoy life again. It healed me more than anything else could.”

Emily revealed she told the other Beauties about her experience within the first week.

“Coming onto the show… the first week that I met the [Beauties] it was crazy how quickly I got along with them,” she said. “I told them about what happened maybe day two of meeting them, and it was really nice having that support throughout the entire show. Also, meeting the Geeks, I saw how boys should treat me rather than how I’ve been treated so terribly before.

“It’s honestly just put all those pieces back together, as I walked in broken from what happened.”

Emily also added that her fellow contestant, Jason, had been an “amazing” support.

“Jason was amazing. Off-screen, I did tell Jason the things that had happened to me and he was amazing. He was so supportive,” she said. “He knew I had a lot of insecurities, and every time I saw him he would give me some sort of compliment and make sure I was feeling okay.

“He was a massive turning point in everything.”

If this has raised any issues for you, or if you just feel like you need to speak to someone, please call 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732) – the national sexual assault, domestic and family violence counseling service.

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David Panton looks suave in a navy suit following split from Julie Bishop

Handbag no more! David Panton looks suave in a navy suit and crisp white shirt as he makes his first public appearance following his split from Julie Bishop

David Panton was all smiles on Thursday night when he stepped out for his first public appearance following his shock split with former foreign minister, Julie Bishop.

Panton allegedly dumped Ms Bishop, 66, over dinner in Sydney just weeks ago after an eight-year relationship.

The co-founder of medical technology company Pantonic Health, 61, looked dashing in Sydney as he posed for photos at the launch of Mercedes-Benz’s newest electric vehicle.

David Panton was all smiles on Thursday night when he stepped out for his first public appearance following his shock split with former foreign minister, Julie Bishop

David Panton was all smiles on Thursday night when he stepped out for his first public appearance following his shock split with former foreign minister, Julie Bishop

Panton ensured all eyes were on him – wearing an impeccably tailored navy suit with a pocket square.

He teamed the stylish ensemble with a crisp white shirt, designer tie, polished black shoes and a pricey watch.

Panton didn’t appear heartbroken after ending his romance with Ms Bishop last month.

During their partnership, Ms Bishop took Mr Panton to the United Nations to meet world leaders, Buckingham Palace to hobnob with British royalty and to the White House where he met Donald and Melania Trump.

The pair first stepped out publicly in 2014, and were pictured at countless celebrity events over the years including the 2018 wedding of Karl Stefanovic and Jasmine Yarbrough.

The co-founder of medical technology company Pantonic Health, 61, looked dashing in Sydney as he posed for photos at the launch of Mercedes-Benz's newest electric vehicle

The co-founder of medical technology company Pantonic Health, 61, looked dashing in Sydney as he posed for photos at the launch of Mercedes-Benz’s newest electric vehicle

Panton ensured all eyes were on him - wearing an impeccably tailored navy suit with a pocket square

Panton ensured all eyes were on him – wearing an impeccably tailored navy suit with a pocket square

They had appeared to be going strong when they recently visited St James’ Palace in London for an event honoring Prince Charles’ charity.

Ms Bishop was understood to have been ‘blindsided’ by the sudden breakdown of her relationship, sources close to the former politician said.

Daily Mail Australia understands she had been finding more ways to be in Sydney with Mr Panton.

He teamed the stylish ensemble with a crisp white shirt, designer tie, polished black shoes and a pricey watch

He teamed the stylish ensemble with a crisp white shirt, designer tie, polished black shoes and a pricey watch.

He teamed the stylish ensemble with a crisp white shirt, designer tie, polished black shoes and a pricey watch

Ms Bishop emerged for the first time since the split smiling happily for photos at a Perth mining conference on July 11, although insiders said she was hurting in the wake of the bust-up and was shocked at the way he’d pulled the pin so suddenly.

Another source close to Ms Bishop was slightly less diplomatic about the sudden end to the affair, hinting that Mr Panton’s presence in her inner circle ‘divided’ some of her friends and colleagues.

But ‘JBish’, as she was referred to in Canberra, remained smitten.

Panton allegedly dumped Ms Bishop, 66, over dinner in Sydney just weeks ago after an eight-year relationship

Panton allegedly dumped Ms Bishop, 66, over dinner in Sydney just weeks ago after an eight-year relationship

‘Let’s just say a there are a few who might be relieved that it’s over,’ said one, adding: ‘His personality didn’t always gel with everyone.’

Mr Panton met Ms Bishop while she was in the midst of her political career, serving as Australia’s Minister of Foreign Affairs.

The pair maintained a long-distance relationship for years, with Ms Bishop based in Perth while he lived in Sydney.

Mr Panton met Ms Bishop while she was in the midst of her political career, serving as Australia's Minister of Foreign Affairs.  (Pictured together last month at St James's Palace in London, having dinner with Prince Charles for an event honoring his charity)

Mr Panton met Ms Bishop while she was in the midst of her political career, serving as Australia’s Minister of Foreign Affairs. (Pictured together last month at St James’s Palace in London, having dinner with Prince Charles for an event honoring his charity)

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